Since the bride has the bridal registry and the groom has the
groom’s registry – it is
but natural that the couple have a couple’s registry. The
couple’s registry is a growing trend among young professionals
who see their marriage more as a partnership where each person has
their say in the household decision making processes – so
it makes sense that the couple would work together to create a registry
that is reflective of both their wants, tastes and needs.
In the past the bridal gift registry was typically left up to the
bride to compile with little or no consultation from her
groom-to-be. As men rarely concerned themselves with the running
of the home or household beyond providing for their families, such
decisions were left almost entirely up to the woman. With today’s
more liberal views and the changing attitudes of men towards their
roles in their marriage and relationship, it is understandable that
they now want an active part in the creation of the bridal registry
– which is why, more and more often, it is being referred
to as the couple’s registry.
The couple’s registry is put together in much the same
way as the bridal registry except that both partners have a say
in what items are chosen for inclusion in their list. All of the
big stores offer couple’s registries as they are, in effect,
a bridal registry. When the retailer creates a couple’s
registry, instead of only being registered under the bride’s
name, the registry is also listed under the groom’s name.
This dual identification of the couple’s registry makes
it easy for the groom’s family and friends to locate the
couple’s registry.
If you are planning on getting married and like the idea of registering
together then you can easily create a couple’s registry
at your favorite store – after all you will both be using
the gifts you get, you might as well make sure that you are both
happy with them.