The traditional bridal registry was typically compiled by the bride
and her mother and
consisted almost entirely of household items that a newlywed couple
would need when first setting up their home. Bridal gift registries
were strictly in the woman’s domain and the husband might
have been consulted for his opinion on what colours he preferred,
but everything else was decided by the bride.
Although the strict sense of the traditional bridal registry has
gone by the wayside, many women still see this as their
chance to get all of the household items that they want or need
for their new homes. However, along with the traditional bridal
registry items such as pots and pans, crystal wine glasses and fine
China, brides today might also include such things as a beautiful
painting for her new living room or a new television set.
Another way that new couples and brides are turning the traditional
bridal registry on its head is by having a very specific registry
such as a bathroom registry where the couple is registered at a
place that specializes in high-end bathroom products and accessories.
Another example of a specific bridal and gift registry would be
the appliances registry whereby the couple registers the appliances
that they want for their new home and guests are encouraged to make
a payment in the amount of what they wanted to spend on a gift –
thereby helping the couple purchase the appliances for their new
home.
Although some people frown on such new versions of the traditional
bridal registry, most people agree that a bridal and gift registry
is a practical way for couples to get the gifts they need and want
while taking the guess work out of the bridal gift buying process
for the guests.